The Blog will be delayed until sometime tomorrow or Friday. I have a very long delayed shoot for The Secret Cancer tomorrow in our humble abode. I am thus running around like a loon and terribly worried about said abode being too humble for our honorable guest. Ah, well. What can you do. I did come up with a scathingly brilliant idea for nibbles. But that's for the blog.
Stay tuned.
Welcome Gentle Readers
This blog tends to wander from its main purpose -- updates on my fiction. I do have updates and excerpts of my work. But I also write about my obsessions -- food, friends and pop culture and my weird life in Los Angeles. Enjoy!
Wednesday, October 31, 2012
Thursday, October 25, 2012
Liotta Again, Actors Galore and Updates
Ray Liotta is back. Craig has reported
several sightings. He called me Tuesday night to report finding 'the
Liotta' parked in a car eating a frozen yogurt. It was after 10pm and
the yogurt shop was closed. That isn't really unusual behavior as far
as actors are concerned. I wonder if Craig thinks 'the Liotta' is
shadowing him while developing a new bit for his acting. I don't
think he is. They are both Jersey raised snack loving organisms.
'veI actually witnessed the man buying snacks on more than one occasion.
It would stand to reason that they would cross paths fairly often.
That part of town is fairly small and somewhat cut off from the rest
of the city. Though I could easily be wrong. I once did an interview
with an actor while I was still on the east coast. All the while, he
was learning the accent and mannerisms of my writing partner. He had
a very serious Philly accent and some peculiar mannerisms. He could
mimic them perfectly after a very short while. Craig is a fascinating
individual. The Liotta could be observing him. I still think it's a
snack thing.
This week has been better than last
week on the whole. I've been able to clear out a lot of stuff from
the dreaded inbox, and the apartment is back in order from the trip.
I need to knock out a couple more things before I can get back to my
fiction writing, I think I'll get those done before next week. I
hope. It looks good for getting it done at the moment. Why the
uncertainty? Things keep coming up that I'm not expecting.
Actor Interactions and Reactions
I am most often asked about my
interaction with actors by people on the East Coast. I've detailed
encounters with the famous and infamous in my blog. It was routine
when Jon and I worked on the Third Street Promenade in Santa Monica. My favorite moment was when Barbara Streisand admired a button I
was wearing. It read 'Strip Him, Bath Him and Bring Him to My Tent.'
She said that I had the right idea about men. A close second was
waiting on Patrick Stewart – twice. I almost jacked up a co-worker
to get to him. And I had a really nice chat with James Cameron while
helping him shop for non-fiction. He needed reading material when he
was 'unemployed' after Titanic. I understand that Ted Danson looked
for me for a year after I left Borders Books. Somehow, I became his
personal shopper. He was very nice, so I did take the time to pull
the books on his lists and ring him up. That service also kept bedlam
to a minimum in the store when tourists figured out who he was.
Currently, my encounters are in
supermarkets or drug stores when they are usually in my way. It's
funny, young actors that I know are from CW shows try to hide who
they are. They do that even in areas that tourists rarely go – like
the markets in Marina Del Rey near here. This is really an area for
locals. But they hide behind their dark sunglasses and hats with big
brims. That makes them more noticeable to me. And I don't care who
they are as they are usually in my way. I've seen a number of older
actors that I recognize from shows I followed in my youth. They make
sure that they are seen. I always get a bright smile when I give them
that 'hey I know you' smile and nod. Sometimes, I'll make a point to
quietly tell them that I always loved their work.
The upshot to all of that yammering is
that I am seldom star struck. My reaction when I spot a celebrity is 'Is this person going to inconvenience me? And how badly?'
When you factor in the fact that I hire and work with actors, my
view of them is vastly different from when I lived in Philly. They
are fun and often funny. Even those that aren't leading male or
female pretty have very attractive personalities. I'm not unaffected
by that. After all, I have to basically fall in love with actors that
I cast as a writer and producer. By and large, they are a pleasure to
be around. Even the ones that have turned up at our place in the wee
small hours of the morning are entertaining in some fashion. I do
like how those young, studly men can be out of their pants in an
instant. A fine trait, I must admit.
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Updates
By Monday, I will be clear of all my
writing/editing obligations save for my fiction! I don't think I'll
know what to do with myself! I have a great deal of new marketing
duties for Sybaritic Press and my Titles that we're trying. But that
should only take a few hours a week. Sybaritic Press, as I have
mentioned, has a Facebook Page. Please, like us and post reviews of
our titles. The link is here:
https://www.facebook.com/SybariticPress. Much more is upcoming!
Stay tuned.
Thursday, October 18, 2012
Long Waits, Longer Roads and Updates
I don't like to complain. My friends
often fuss at me, because they may not hear that I'm having problems
until they are very dire and there is the running and the screaming.
Last week was different. I was actually complaining without being en
route to thee ER. I had good reason.
Long Road to Long Beach
The convention went well, but the week
did not go well for me. I've got some new and tiresome variations on
problems from the nerve damage chemo left behind in my feet. It was a
very painful week compounded by mix ups and confusion at my Doc's
office. Those were no one's fault, but the delays left me with a lot
work that needed to be done before the convention and almost no time
to finish. Boy howdy, my stress levels were through the roof and
headed for orbit. Not going to Long Beach was out of the question. I
think the stress the guilt over the loss money and not fulfilling my
obligations would have been far worse. I don't think I have been as
freaked out in a single week since my last surgery. And still, I had
to look the part of the writer/editor/publisher in an environment
where I was listed as an industry professional. Somewhere in all of
the mayhem that I absolutely had to get a handle on, I had to make
enough time to give myself a professional polish. Men have it easy.
Jon got a haircut, and he was done. It was the same thing when we
went to the Cannes Film Market. A haircut and a tux and a few shirts.
He was food for a week for formal events. I needed five gowns and the
accessories to go with them. Arrrgh! So, I HAD to find time for a
facial and get a hot soak while shaving things. I HAD to make sure I
had my hair in shape enough that I could easily style on the road.
Oh, and crazy me, also decided to make a Japanese confection I've
never made – mochi
– to give to special people. I am out of my mind.
I'd love to say that once I arrived at
the hotel, everything became magical and joyful. Not so much. There
was a convenient but long and arduous trip to the convention moving
over 100 lbs of luggage (It was on wheels. Don yell at me). I got
lost once I reached the station on the train. The hotel was across
from the stop, but the signage was on the opposite side of the
building from the stop. I walked in the other direction for some
blocks before flagging a cab who took pity on me. Then there was some
unpleasantness at check in that left me so irritated that along with
the post visit survey the company was silly enough to send me, there
will be an eyebrow singe worthy Yelp
Review http://t.co/Fsuk8MdL. I didn't start to relax until after the first panel was over.
A lot of really cool stuff happened at Yaoi-con 2012. The full report
is here:
http://www.sybpressyaoi.com/2012/10/paddles-panels-and-yaoi-con-2012.html.
It's huge and full of great photos and stories about my surprising
fans. So cool!
One of the best moments of the weekend
was getting to catch up with one of our Privateers pals. Back then,
we called her Skyia. Now, she is Laura. She is still the amazing
woman of incredible height and the most gentle of voices. I was
really concerned that we wouldn't be able to find the time to even
grab a cup of coffee. As is the way of conventions, time never rolls
out the way it is originally planned. And then, there was my energy
levels at the end of the day to worry about. Luckily, we were able to
carve out an hour on Saturday to grab a beer and a bite. We had
almost a decade to get caught up on, but it was a relaxed encounter.
Though trained as a Marine Engineer, Laura is currently a massage
therapist and quite a gifted healer. She made Jon's knee feel better
in five minutes, and it still feels good! I am working toward getting
her up here with a massage table or going back to Long Beach to visit
hers. I've had a massage or two since this whole medical ordeal
began. They've always made me feel better. Given Laura's skill, I'd
bet I'll feel awesome. I really want to feel awesome. I'd also like
to spend more than an hour with a really neat person that has been
missing from my life for far too long.
Inbox Update
The magna pile is dwindling down. I
have less than 50 pages on the current book to edit. That leaves one
more title in the pipeline. The team has agreed that we are going to
get that done and approved before signing up for another one. Jon and
I have outlined the script for the web series. I'll start work on
that in earnest this weekend. I have a couple of important interviews
to tape next week. I'll talk more about those after they happen. I
don't want to jinx them.
Sybaritic Press finally has a Facebook page! Join us for updates and announcements. https://www.facebook.com/SybariticPress?ref=hl
Sybaritic Press finally has a Facebook page! Join us for updates and announcements. https://www.facebook.com/SybariticPress?ref=hl
Stay tuned.
Wednesday, October 10, 2012
Nuns and Wapners and Lots of Busy
There was a nun in full penguin regalia
in the jury pool with me on Tuesday. It never occurred to me that
nuns could be called in for jury duty. It really never occurred to me
that a nun would own an iphone. I really wanted to get a peek at the
game she was playing, but it was awkward trying to get a look. She
kept giving me the once over. I could tell from her expression that
she knew I'd gone to Catholic school. They can tell, you know. I
don't actually mind jury duty. It's usually a great opportunity to
read. The only thing that's annoying is getting called for a panel.
It usually means a second day of service. I don't mind that either,
but I never get picked. There are too many connections to law
enforcement in my life (My father was a cop and I worked out of a
police district for a few years).
The person giving us our orientation
was a Judge Wapner. Really. He is the son of the original Peoples
Court judge. Judge Wapner put a new slant on the usual speech about
civic duty though he did make sure to mention that Jury service is
one of the very few things our government requires of its citizens.
Judge Wapner evoked a tried and true TV Crime drama ploy where the DA
comes into a conference room, declaring that there is a jury ready to
hear a trial. If the defendant wants a deal, he'd better make it
there an now. Judge Wapner said writers could never use that were it
not for people showing up for jury duty. That got some chuckles. Only
in LA would script ideas be used as a good reason for jury duty. I
didn't get picked for a panel, so it was just one day. That was a
relief. I envisioned having to rush home from downtown to get the
suitcases and rush back out to get to Long Beach. A nightmare, I tell
you. Fortunately, that's one I get to avoid. There are many more to
get past before Friday.
Inbox Again
This week, the inbox is mostly in the
background as I get my act together for Yaoi-con. I even more jazzed
about this convention than I was last year, because it's practically
in my own backyard. Not that going to San Francisco wasn't fun. It
was great to know that I could still fly on a plane without real
difficulty. However, not flying saves a whole lot of money and time.
I'd rather keep the air fare to spend on stuff at the convention
itself. Besides, because of the convention schedule, I didn't
actually get to see any of San Francisco. Another great perk to being
close is that I can see friends there that were unlikely to travel
that far to get there specialty geek on. So there will be some extra
friendly faces about. Nice!
Convention Time!
I have three panels at this Yaoi-con.
Details about each panel and other upcoming excitement can be found
at this link:
http://www.sybpressyaoi.com/2012/10/yaoi-con-2012-preview.html.
I am very pleased to be listed as an Industry Professional for one of
the panels. I will be representing the freelancers or localizers from
the Digital Manga Guild in a recruitment panel. While I am very
pround of being a fangirl, and I don't hesitate to make that known,
it's gratifying to be recognized as a professional. I've been working
very hard to be thought of as one.
I have to blitz through some editing of
the latest manga script before I finish my panel presentations. I'm
trying to do them all in Power Point, but this 'easy' program is
making me crazy. I always have issues with programs that are supposed
to be fool proof. There is never a template that really fits my needs
or my themes nor is there a function to really let me do my own
thing. I'm going to give the program one more go before I make my own
slide show. I have so much that has to be finished by Thursday
night.
I will be taking lots of photos, and
this time, I may even do some videos.
Stay tuned!
Wednesday, October 03, 2012
The Book Fair Cometh and Updates!

Sybpress in the Park was a successful
return to Book

Meanwhile, the Book Fair Sales continue
through Bent-con in December. For discounts on our titles of up to
30%, including tax and shipping, click here:
http://sybpress.com/bookfairsale.htm
.
Inbox Update
Even before we packed up for the Book
Fair, I had made quite a dent in that danged inbox of doom. By this
evening, I'll have submitted the last of the unscheduled manga
scripts I took on. The Letterer on my team was working on these books
with a different editor. That editor had to leave the project, so I stepped
in right on top of the deadline. That was fun. With that out of my
hair, there is only the manga already in the pipeline. My plan is to
be rid of that by the weekend, so I can focus on the three power
point presentations I have to finish for Yaoi-con. I only planned on doing two panels, but strange things happen during web conferences, it seems. Meanwhile, Jon is
finally working on editing the Demonspawn web series teaser trailer. In a
perfect world, I would like that to go live before we leave for
Yaoi-con, but we are most likely losing all day Saturday to some work
being done on our apartment complex. Past experience tells us that it
is best to get out of the building until the dust settles. So, that
is what we'll be doing. After Yaoi-con, I can focus on my
fiction once again -- until Bent-con. Just kidding. I'm going to do my panel presentations for that while I'm working on the ones for Yaoi-con. My readers have been patient (HA!), and I need to
get back on track. I'm far happier when I can do even a few
pages of writing a day.
I'll detail exactly what I'm doing on
this year's Yaoi-con panels as well as update the status on the
novels next week.
Stay tuned!
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